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Tola Brightwell Wilkerson Dellinger

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Birth	:	12 Dec 1916 Prince Edward County, Virginia, USA
Death	:	23 Jul 2021 Thomasville, Davidson County, North Carolina, USA
Burial	:	Fairview Memorial Park, Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate	:	35.3525009, -80.1766968
Description	:	Tola Brightwell Wilkerson Dellinger, age 104, of Thomasville, North Carolina passed away peacefully on Friday, July 23, 2021. She was preceded in death by her husband Roy E. Dellinger and her son Dr. Thomas C. Dellinger. Tola is survived by her son Robert E. Dellinger and his wife Ellen of Davidson, NC and her daughter-in-law Nancy E. Dellinger of Oxford, MS. She was the loving Grandmother to Kirsten, Kelly, Todd, Rob, Jenny & Dean and will always be remembered as "GG" to her eight great grandchildren. Tola was born December 12, 1916 in Prince Edward County,... Read More	Tola Brightwell Wilkerson Dellinger, age 104, of Thomasville, North Carolina passed away peacefully on Friday, July 23, 2021. She was preceded in death by her husband Roy E. Dellinger and her son Dr. Thomas C. Dellinger. Tola is survived by her son Robert E. Dellinger and his wife Ellen of Davidson, NC and her daughter-in-law Nancy E. Dellinger of Oxford, MS. She was the loving Grandmother to Kirsten, Kelly, Todd, Rob, Jenny & Dean and will always be remembered as "GG" to her eight great grandchildren. Tola was born December 12, 1916 in Prince Edward County, Virginia to John Hopkins Wilkerson & Margaret Ann Reynolds. Tola was one of 11 children, the youngest of 6 daughters, all of them raised on the family's tobacco farm near Prospect, VA. She grew up attending a one-room school with a burning stove, where her older sister, Mary, was her first teacher. Upon graduation, she sought out a career as a secretary before the Depression impacted her job prospects. Around that time, she moved to North Carolina to help her sister Thelma Wilkerson Whicker of China Grove, where she met Roy. They were married in 1938 and raised their 2 sons primarily in Rockwell & Thomasville, NC, where Roy enjoyed a long career in textiles. Tola was smart and charismatic. As a mother, Tola was dedicated to her sons and their many athletic pursuits. She was renowned for her loud, supportive whistling at their games. She loved God, family, and sports. Later in life, she took up golf and played into her 80s. Tola famously hit a hole-in-one during a round of golf at the Stanly County Country Club, followed by an equally impressive "putt-putt-in-one" at her 100th birthday celebration in 2016. In retirement, the Dellingers settled in Albemarle, NC, where Tola loved gatherings with her whole family for home-grown vegetable dinners. She had a great love of music, especially hymns, and was known to spontaneously break into song and often left "singing" voice messages on answering machines. Tola also loved drawing, painting, and sharing her talents with others. She was a devout Christian, whose faith was the true foundation for her life. She recently said, "From childhood until now, I know that God has been with me." In 1995, Tola and Roy returned to Thomasville to live at the Piedmont Crossing Retirement Community. Tola was a constant presence at many Piedmont functions, including bible study, church services & bingo. The Dellinger Family would like to express our sincere gratitude and thanks to the wonderful staff of Piedmont Crossing. They were part of her extended family for over 25 years providing unparalleled love and support for Tola. In lieu of flowers, friends and family may make donations in support of the Piedmont Crossing Benevolent Fund, 100 Hedrick Drive, Thomasville, NC 27360.

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Where is Tola Brightwell Wilkerson Dellinger's memorial?
Tola Brightwell Wilkerson Dellinger's memorial is located at: Fairview Memorial Park, Albemarle, Stanly County, USA.
When did Tola Brightwell Wilkerson Dellinger death?
Tola Brightwell Wilkerson Dellinger death on 23 Jul 2021 in Thomasville, Davidson County, North Carolina, USA
Where are the coordinates of the Tola Brightwell Wilkerson Dellinger's memorial?
Latitude: 35.3525009
Longitude: -80.1766968

Family Members:

Parent

John Hopkins Wilkerson

(1879 - 1944)

Margaret Ann “Maggie” Reynolds Wilkerson

(1885 - 1970)

Spouse

Roy Ephriam Dellinger

(1910 - 1997)

Siblings

John Hopkins Wilkerson Jr.

(1918 - 2007)

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Nearby Cemetories:

1. Fairview Memorial Park
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3525009, -80.1766968

2. Old Albemarle Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3531500, -80.1882500

3. Christ Episcopal Church Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3516370, -80.1921030

4. Mount Zion Misssionary Baptist Church Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3432500, -80.1630670

5. Stanly Gardens Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3478012, -80.1588974

6. East Side Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3424700, -80.1609280

7. Hearne Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3434667, -80.1982167

8. Hearne Burial Ground
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3488750, -80.2018180

9. Anderson Grove Baptist Church Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3461830, -80.1520830

10. Richard Carter Family Burial Ground
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3294667, -80.1839167

11. Sweet Home Baptist Church Cemetery
Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3464300, -80.1444000

12. Centerview Baptist Church Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3824900, -80.1879300

13. Union Chapel UMC Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3206760, -80.1766510

14. Dunns Grove Baptist Church Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3837350, -80.1667500

15. Homeland Baptist Church Cemetery
Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3607520, -80.2165130

16. David Rumage
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3245000, -80.1528833

17. Bethesda Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3210983, -80.1941986

18. Lowder Infant Grave
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3714800, -80.2121300

19. Poplin Grove Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3394012, -80.2202988

20. Cagle Confederate Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3506500, -80.2233500

21. Mountain Creek Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3930080, -80.1841940

22. Trinity Baptist Church Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3940200, -80.1799070

23. Solomon Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3307070, -80.1330860

24. Mann-Burleson Cemetery
Albemarle, Stanly County, USA
Coordinate: 35.3763100, -80.2190210